Reload Complete Joining Tmodloader
Enable them in your "Manage Mods" menu before attempting to join. Best Practices for Server Hosts
For players who cannot upgrade their tModLoader version (perhaps due to mod incompatibility), a community mod solution exists. Mods like "Longer Time-Outs" were specifically created to raise the default server timeout from 2 minutes to a much longer duration (often 10 minutes), allowing large packs to finish loading before the server kicks them. reload complete joining tmodloader
tModLoader receives frequent updates. If you are running an older version of tModLoader (e.g., 2022.9.47.6) while your friends are on a newer build, or if Terraria itself auto-updated and broke compatibility, the reload process will fail. Enable them in your "Manage Mods" menu before